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Session 1: Self-Care and Compassion

with Rahmat Moore and Widad Cobb

  • (+ files are downloadable)

    +Self-Compassion Slide PDF

    +Self-compassion Mantra

    +Self Compassion Resources

    +Saint Francis and the Sow

    BY GALWAY KINNELL

    The bud stands for all things,

    even for those things that don’t flower,

    for everything flowers, from within, of self-blessing;   

    though sometimes it is necessary to reteach a thing its loveliness,

    to put a hand on its brow of the flower and retell it in words and in touch it is lovely until it flowers again from within, of self-blessing;   

    as Saint Francis put his hand on the creased forehead of the sow, and told her in words and in touch blessings of earth on the sow, and the sow    began remembering all down her thick length, from the earthen snout all the way through the fodder and slops to the spiritual curl of the tail, 

    from the hard spininess spiked out from the spine down through the great broken heart to the sheer blue milken dreaminess spurting and shuddering from the fourteen teats into the fourteen mouths sucking and blowing

    beneath them:

    the long, perfect loveliness of sow.

  • (+ files are downloadable)

    +Class 1 Notes

    +Wisdom Quotes

    +Practices

    Self-knowledge is to discover the true knowledge of our beng within and without.

    “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” Rumi

    Sympathy is the root of religion, and so long as the spirit of sympathy is living in your heart, you have the light of religion. Now the feeling between mother and child, between God and soul which is called love, or agape by the Christians, Ishk by the Sufis and Muslims generally Karuna by the Buddhists and has other names elsewhere is the great driving power in the Universe. This sympathy is the same force which appears as cohesion, adhesion and gravitation among the physical forces; this promotes all growth-physical, mental or spiritual-and is the principle behind many faculties which appear in the world of creation.” Murshid Samuel Lewis “Bowl of Saki.”

    I am so trapped by my pain, I don’t know how to ask how you’re doing. The Bear Hulu TV Series

    Through our awareness of personal pain, gain awareness of human pain and suffering.” Pir O’ Murshid Hazrat Inayat Kahn

    The Cry of Humanity.” “The cure for pain is the pain.” Rumi

    Self-Inquiry –Is a spiritual practice that allows us to gain conscious awareness which can produce a shift in consciousness and allow the inquirer to self-correct and re-align with their true nature.

    Inquiry is an ongoing transformative practice by which we can encounter a direct experience of release followed by realization. It is a process of following a particular thread or theme in our lives that produces pain and suffering. The inquiry process is what Murshid Samuel Lewis refers to as “Unlearning” and Murshid Hazrat Inayat Kahn refers to as “untying the knots” the false (lifting the veils) to realize the real-our true and authentic nature. We approach the inquiry process with mercy and compassion.

    Although this can be a difficult process, to move through, the fruit it bears produces a sense of deep liberation. Gives way to spaciousness and a greater capacity to experience spiritual teachings as a living truth in and through our Being.

Relationship of the Heart between Guide and Mureed

Session 2: Saturday, February 24

with Rahimah Sweeney and Abraham Sussman

  • Recite Ya Murshid, tuning yourself to the transmissional love stream of our silsila as it passes from your teacher's teacher’s

    teacher's teacher… on through you...

    Questions offered for contemplation during the class breakout groups

    A) What opportunities and challenges arise for you in your experience as a mureed ?

    B) What opportunities and challenges arise for you in your experience as a Sufi guide?

    Suggested Interim Reading and Practice

    Read Fana-fi-Sheikh By Murshid Samuel L. Lewis (PDF)

    Suggested Reflection Practice: Choose a few paragraphs from Murshid SAM’s paper Fana-Fi-Sheikh that speak deeply to you.

    Reflect on how these apply to your inner experience as a mureed and/or your experience as a guide.

    Resources:

    FOLLOW-UP Interim Meeting on March 9, 1pm EST

    Rahimah and Abraham will host a 1 hour group check-in and sohbet for those of you who would like to join.

    This meeting will not be recorded. Use the regular class zoom link to join. The zoom room will open 5 minutes before the hour. Please arrive a few minutes early to settle in so we can begin together.

    Remember there is a shared blog on the page for our continued connection!

Illuminating the Shadow

Session 3: Saturday, April 13

with Munira Elizabeth Reed and Jelaluddin Hauke Sturm

  • Downloadable PDF’s:

    Quotes and Practice from Munira.pdf

    Session 3 practices from Jelaluddin Psychological Aspects of the Path of the Heart.pdf

    "Quotes, Writings, and Practices from Jelaluddin

    Murshid SAM, in Bestowal of Blessing “How, then, can we keep the living heart from being veiled?"

    Poem from Khalil Gibran "Your pain is the breaking of the shell that incloses your understanding.

    Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so you must know pain.

    And could you keep your heart in wonder at the daily miracles of your life, your pain would not seem less wondrous than your joy.

    Practice from Moineddin written in a letter to Mansur, December, 1976

    "Third, there is direct focused Concentration. This can be done in any of several ways,

    including the following:

    breathe in and out “Allah Shafee, Allah Kafee” and feel the light of healing enter equally

    through te crown centre and the soles of the feet, meeting midway at the heart centre.

    There one generates a kind of solar energy and directly floods the recipient with the

    healing rays, especially the affected part. This can be done as a ritual in circular format

    in, or as part of Murshid's Healing Dance at the end.

    Your own intuition will provide the right approach."

    – Moineddin,

    Additional practice to work with your shadow or wounds inside: Ya Khafid, Ya Nuri

    Ya Khafid: Inviting the shadow, the hidden parts, the voices inside, which are shy or wounded

    Ya Nuri: Sending light into the shadow, illuminating the shadow, power of transformation

The School of the Nafs

Session 4: Saturday, June 1

with Himayat Inayati and Raphael Birney

  • Cities of the Soul by Sheik Rafael Rod Birney, is available free as a down load. This book explores from the perspective of an ancient Sufi teaching story that's been modernized the different levels of Nafs and how to work with them.

Integration and Closure

Session 5: Saturday, June 29

with all teachers’